“It is easier to build a boy than to mend a man.”
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Attribution note
Not found in any Gandhi work; it is a generic 'build a boy / mend a man' proverb echoing the widely circulated (and itself apocryphal) Douglass 'strong children / broken men' saying, so crediting it to Gandhi has no reliable basis.
Likely origin: Old Western reform-era proverb, not from Gandhi; parallels the apocryphal 'It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men' (itself falsely attributed to Frederick Douglass). No Gandhi source exists.
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Shaping a young person's habits is cheap next to rehabilitating a grown one whose patterns have set. Early on, character is still soft clay; later it has fired hard, and every fix means first unlearning. The leverage sits in prevention — time spent guiding the young returns far more than repair ever does.
When to use it
- A saving habit taught to a ten-year-old sticks far better than trying to untangle an adult's credit-card debt later.
- A coach who drills clean technique early spares an athlete from years of unlearning bad, injury-prone form.
- Reading with a child each night builds a lifelong reader more easily than nagging a reluctant grown-up to pick up books.