“You know what I am going to say. I love you. What other men may mean when they use that expression, I cannot tell; what I mean is, that I am under the influence of some tremendous attraction which I have resisted in vain, and which overmasters me.”
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The line refuses polite euphemisms and names the loss of control for what it is: raw attraction that overwhelms reason. Read it as a prompt to own your feelings, decide whether to act or to set firm boundaries, and stop hiding behind vague excuses. Use that honesty to make a clear choice and accept the consequences—no softness, just accountability.
When to use it
- Say the words in person when you can no longer pretend: name the attraction and then state whether you will act or step back.
- Reread the line when you feel stuck and ask: am I controlled by attraction or am I choosing my next move? Make a decision within 72 hours.
- Include the sentiment in a letter to be blunt and honest about why you pursued someone, then outline how you will behave from now on.
- Use it as a personal checkpoint: if an emotion overmasters you, acknowledge it aloud, then apply discipline or make a concrete plan to move forward.