About this quote

We often blame our environment for our failures. We think a new city or a fresh start across the border will magically fix our habits. But geographic escape is a cheap illusion; the same version of you unpacks the bags at the other end. Real change happens right where you are standing when you decide to alter your daily choices. It is harder to face yourself than to buy a plane ticket, but it is the only move that actually works.

When to use it

• A freelance coder wants to move to Silicon Valley because they think it will make them rich. They remember they can just improve their coding skills and find remote clients from their current bedroom.
• A runner wants to sign up for an expensive high-altitude training camp in Colorado to break their personal record. They realize they just need to stop skipping their local morning runs first.
• A father thinks his relationship with his kids will improve if they move to a bigger house in a better neighborhood. He stops himself and realizes he just needs to put his phone down during dinner tonight.