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Probable attribution
This saying is widely associated with Mahatma Gandhi, but the attribution is not supported by a reliable primary source.
Likely origin: Attributed to Gandhi and collected in 'The Wit and Wisdom of Gandhi'; no dated primary source located.
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Children learn conduct less from lectures than from what they watch every day. A home where honesty, patience, and fairness are simply how things get done teaches those things more deeply than any classroom. A parent's own behavior becomes the real curriculum, whether or not anyone means it to.
When to use it
- A child who sees parents split chores fairly grows up expecting partnership, not one person doing it all.
- Kids who watch a parent admit a mistake and apologize learn to own their own slip-ups.
- A household that reads together at night raises readers without ever assigning it as homework.