“The best thing to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.”
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Hugely popular but with no reliable primary source; commonly attributed. This candidate row is also badly transcribed ('Loose', title-case) and would need normalization before any use.
Likely origin: One of Gandhi's most-cited lines ('The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others') but unsourced; no primary in CWMG has been found and it is widely flagged as unverified.
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One of the most quoted lines credited to him, though no primary source confirms it. The point holds regardless: chasing self-definition head-on tends to spin in circles, while absorption in a task that helps others quiets the self-searching and lets a steadier identity form as a byproduct.
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- A person stuck asking 'who am I?' finds clarity after months of tutoring kids after school.
- Someone adrift after a breakup steadies by throwing herself into a community garden project.
- A retiree unsure of his purpose rediscovers it driving meals to homebound neighbors.