About this quote

It points out that careless words do damage when you act without focus or intent. Slow down, own your speech, and measure the likely result before you release it. Treat conversation like action: aim where you want to hit, or expect collateral damage.

When to use it

• Before answering in a heated meeting, pause and breathe so your reply lands where it should instead of creating new problems.
• When giving performance feedback, plan your points — blunt comments fired out of anger will only demoralize, not improve results.
• Think twice before posting on social media; a rash comment spreads fast and can't be retracted.
• If you're coaching someone, ask questions first rather than blasting out opinions that miss the real issue.