About this quote

We often exhaust ourselves trying to impress intellectuals and overthinkers who analyze every word. Sometimes, the most refreshing people are those who do not take themselves so seriously and lack any pretense. They offer a rare break from social posturing and competitive wit. You get to drop your guard and just enjoy a simple, uncomplicated conversation. Seek out people who bring effortless amusement rather than exhausting mental gymnastics.

When to use it

• After a painful date with an arrogant academic who lectured her on philosophy for two hours, Sarah sighs to her sister about wanting someone far less complicated.
• Mark leaves a stiff corporate dinner where everyone bragged about their portfolios. He calls his best friend to grab a beer, laughing about how he prefers the company of guys who do not take themselves so seriously.
• During a tense family reunion where cousins are loudly debating politics, Clara sneaks away to the porch to watch her husband happily struggle to set up a simple lawn chair.