“So far as I am concerned, I could not be accused of having set eyes, or having wished to set eyes, upon Darius' wife; on the contrary, I have refused even to listen to those who spoke to me of her beauty.”
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Alexander the Great states a simple rule for leaders: refuse distractions and cut off gossip before it takes hold. The line pushes you to own your choices and protect your purpose rather than indulge curiosity or rumor. Ask yourself where you are letting chatter steer your actions, then set and enforce clearer boundaries.
When to use it
- When coworkers trade sensational stories about a colleague, refuse to listen and steer the conversation back to work.
- If a tempting shortcut risks your reputation, say no and explain you won't entertain excuses or flattery.
- In a relationship, shut down gossip and protect boundaries instead of chasing rumors about others.
- As a manager, model restraint by refusing attention-seeking distractions so the team stays focused on the mission.

