About this quote

Pride often gets in the way of our growth because we hate feeling managed. We want the knowledge, but our egos flare up the moment someone points out what we are doing wrong. Do you shut down when a coworker offers feedback, even if they are right? It helps to separate the lesson from the person who delivers it. Drop your guard and focus on the data, not the delivery.

When to use it

• When your manager critiques your slide deck and you want to snap back. You take a breath and realize they actually saved you from looking foolish.
• Your tennis coach spots a flaw in your swing. You swallow your pride and adjust your stance instead of arguing.
• Your partner shows you a faster way to chop vegetables. You feel annoyed at first, but you use the tip to finish cooking quicker.