“My optimism rests on my belief in the infinite possibilities of the individual to develop nonviolence. The more you develop it in your own being, the more it overwhelms your surroundings and by and by might oversweep the world.”
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Probable attribution
This saying is widely associated with Mahatma Gandhi, but the attribution is not supported by a reliable primary source.
Likely origin: Attributed to Gandhi (Harijan-derived; appears in John Dear, ed., 'Mohandas Gandhi: Essential Writings', 2002); candidate is a slight variant of the common wording.
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Change tends to spread from the inside out. Working on your own steadiness first isn't self-absorption — a person who genuinely stops returning hostility shifts the mood of a room, then a group, and the effect widens the more real it becomes.
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- One calm coworker who never returns hostility slowly cools an entire tense team.
- A parent who stops yelling finds the whole household lowering its voice over months.
- A single volunteer's steady kindness nudges a street into looking out for each other.