“Man and his deed are two distinct things. Whereas a good deed should call for approbation and a wicked deed disapprobation, the doer of the deed, whether good or wicked, always deserves respect or pity as the case may be.”
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Separating the person from the act lets you condemn what was done without writing off who did it. That gap is what makes correction possible instead of pure punishment: you can name a wrong plainly and still leave the door open for the wrongdoer to change.
When to use it
- A teacher who marks the cheating as serious while still treating the student as someone who can recover.
- A coach who benches a player for a dirty foul but keeps developing him instead of writing him off.
- A parent who names a lie clearly, then helps the child make it right rather than branding them a liar.