About this quote

Feelings can hide facts that your eyes would notice. That tendency leads people into decisions made from imagination rather than observation. Give affection a chance, but check it against daily behavior and small practical tests. Let emotion inspire you, and let simple reality checks keep you from repeating avoidable mistakes.

When to use it

• At the engagement dinner I told my partner, “I love you, but let’s rent a place together for six months before we sign a lease.”
• Before writing a big check to a friend’s business, I reminded myself about Cupid being blind and asked for the last three months of sales figures.
• When Mom forgave Dad for another reckless choice, I said, “Okay, love is one thing — write a repayment plan before you help again.”
• Choosing a bandmate because they’re charismatic? I told the coach, “Great vibe, but let’s do three rehearsals first so we see how reliable they are.”