Love her, love her, love her! If she favours you, love her. If she wounds you, love her. If she tears your heart to pieces - and as it gets older and stronger, it will tear deeper - love her, love her, love her!

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Love her, love her, love her — the line demands relentless commitment even when love hurts. It insists on staying present whether you are cherished or wounded, because enduring care builds strength over time. That doesn't mean tolerating abuse or making excuses; it means owning your choices, setting clear boundaries, and learning from the pain. Make loving a deliberate practice: act consistently, accept responsibility for your responses, and turn wounds into lessons that sharpen resilience.

When to use it

  • When your partner hurts you, choose to remain kind while clearly stating what you won’t accept and what must change.
  • If an old relationship still stings, let the pain teach you where to set boundaries instead of letting fear drive you away.
  • When a friend betrays trust, show steady compassion while holding them accountable and protecting your own heart.
  • Use hard moments in love to practice patience and stronger judgment rather than avoiding intimacy out of fear.