“Just as a man would not cherish living in a body other than his own, so do nations not like to live under other nations, however noble and great the latter may be.”
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Probable attribution
This saying is widely associated with Mahatma Gandhi, but the attribution is not supported by a reliable primary source.
Likely origin: Attributed to Gandhi's writings on nationalism/self-rule (Young India / 'Freedom's Battle' material); no dated primary confirmed.
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The pull toward governing yourself runs deeper than the quality of whoever governs you; even benevolent control chafes because it isn't yours. That is why well-meant help imposed from above breeds resentment — people want a say, not just good outcomes handed down to them.
When to use it
- A capable employee bristles under a micromanager even when the boss's instructions are perfectly sound.
- A grown son resents parents who keep 'fixing' his life, however good their advice.
- A neighborhood pushes back on a redevelopment plan drawn up for them without one resident consulted.