“If you are going to fight, don't let them talk you into negotiating. But if you are going to negotiate, don't let them talk you into fighting.”
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It calls for ruthless clarity: pick a course and own it. Wavering wastes time and weakens your position. Commit to the path you choose and be accountable for the outcome.
When to use it
- Before a salary talk, decide if you will walk away or bargain; if you're walking away, don't get pulled into small concessions.
- When a teammate pushes for drama, choose whether to confront the issue head-on or settle it at the table — don't do both.
- Facing a breakup? Decide if you will fight for the relationship or negotiate terms to stay, and then act consistently.
- In negotiations with a client, set your posture early: either press your demands or trade concessions, but don't flip between them.