“I should love to satisfy all, if I possibly can; but in trying to satisfy all, I may be able to satisfy none. I have, therefore, arrived at the conclusion that the best course is to satisfy one’s own conscience and leave the world to form its own judgment, favorable or otherwise.”
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Probable attribution
This saying is widely associated with Mahatma Gandhi, but the attribution is not supported by a reliable primary source.
Likely origin: Attributed to Gandhi, Young India (c.1927 per some sources); consistent with his writings on conscience, but no confirmed dated primary located.
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Trying to please everyone spreads you so thin that you satisfy no one and lose yourself in the bargain. Anchoring decisions to your own conscience instead gives a stable reference point that doesn't shift with every opinion, and it frees you from managing reactions you were never able to control anyway.
When to use it
- A new manager stops chasing approval from every faction and simply makes the call she can defend, and respect follows.
- An author quits rewriting his novel for each beta reader and finishes the book he actually meant to write.
- A teenager chooses the college that fits her rather than the one that would impress relatives.