“I have naturally formed the habit of restraining my thoughts. A thoughtless word hardly ever escaped my tongue or pen. Experience has taught me that silence is part of the spiritual discipline of a votary of truth. We find so many people impatient to talk. All this talking can hardly be said to be of any benefit to the world. It is so much waste of time. My shyness has been in reality my shield and buckler. It has allowed me to grow. It has helped me in my discernment of truth.”
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Source: The Story of My Experiments with Truth (Autobiography), Part I, ch. 'Shyness My Shield'.
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Holding a thought before it becomes a sentence buys time to test whether it's true or just noise. Much of what we rush to say adds nothing; the quiet leaves room to notice what actually matters and to know your own mind.
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- Before firing off an angry reply, someone drafts it, waits an hour, and usually deletes it.
- In a meeting, a person stays quiet until they have something worth adding rather than filling every pause.
- A student keeps a silent morning hour to think through a problem instead of talking it out immediately.