About this quote

We spend too much energy pretending we have flawless self-control. It is exhausting to fight every single urge that crosses your path. Sometimes, admitting that you are going to give in actually saves you from a lot of useless guilt. You have to choose your battles with your own desires. Give yourself permission to enjoy the slip-up, laugh at your own weakness, and move on.

When to use it

• You swore you were starting a strict sugar-free diet on Monday, but your coworker just brought in a box of fresh, warm glazed donuts. You laugh, grab a maple bar, and tell your desk neighbor that some rules are meant to be broken.
• You promised yourself you would save money this month, but then your favorite band announced a surprise concert in your city. You immediately buy the VIP tickets because some experiences are worth the budget detour.
• You plan to spend Friday night studying for your accounting exam, but your friends show up at your door with pizza and movie tickets. You close your textbook, grab your coat, and decide the studying can wait until Saturday morning.