“Experience has taught me that silence is part of the spiritual discipline of a votary of truth. Proneness to exaggerate, to suppress or modify the truth, wittingly or unwittingly, is a natural weakness of man and silence is necessary in order to surmount it. A man of few words will rarely be thoughtless in his speech; he will measure every word. We find so many people impatient to talk. There is no chairman of a meeting who is not pestered with notes for permission to speak. And whenever the permission is given the speaker generally exceeds the time-limit, asks for more time, and keeps on talking without permission. All this talking can hardly be said to be of my benefit to the world. It is so much waste of time. My shyness has been in reality my shield and buckler. It has allowed me to grow. It has helped me in my discernment of truth.”
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Probable attribution
This saying is widely associated with Mahatma Gandhi, but the attribution is not supported by a reliable primary source.
Likely origin: Gandhi, 'An Autobiography or The Story of My Experiments with Truth' (Part I, chapter 'Shyness my Shield', serialized Navajivan/Young India 1925-29).
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Talking less isn't shyness for its own sake; it's a guard against the small distortions that creep in when we rush to fill the air. Weighing each word before it leaves you makes exaggeration harder and keeps what you say close to what you actually saw or meant.
When to use it
- In a heated meeting, waiting a beat and offering one measured sentence instead of piling on qualifiers.
- A manager who writes fewer, clearer emails rather than a flood of half-thoughts nobody finishes reading.
- Catching yourself before you round 'twenty minutes late' up to 'an hour' just to make the story land.

