“Because nerds like us are allowed to be unironically enthusiastic about stuff. Nerds are allowed to love stuff, like jump-up-and-down-in-the-chair can't-control-yourself love it. Hank, when people call people nerds, mostly what they're saying is 'you like stuff,' which is just not a good insult at all. Like, 'you are too enthusiastic about the miracle of human consciousness.'”
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Being proud of intense, silly passion is a simple act of honesty about what matters to you. When someone uses “nerd” as an insult they’re really trying to shrink that energy. Let your enthusiasm be a useful signal — it draws people in and pushes projects forward. Try naming one thing you love and give it ten focused minutes today to see how your mood and ideas change.
When to use it
- At a product brainstorming session, when a teammate downplays a nerdy idea, I say, “Nerds like us are allowed to be unironically enthusiastic about stuff” to get them to pitch it fully.
- In the college club meeting, after someone apologizes for geeking out about a book series, I remind them, “Nerds are allowed to love stuff — jump-up-and-down-in-the-chair-can't-control-yourself love it.”
- Telling my younger sibling who’s embarrassed about their dense hobby, “People call you a nerd because you like stuff — that’s not an insult, it’s a strength,” and then helping them set up time to dive back in.
- At a trivia night, when a friend scolds themselves for celebrating a niche victory, I quote the line to let them enjoy the win without apology.