A long visit to a friend is often a great bore. Never make people twice glad.

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About this quote

It forces you to face a plain fact: staying longer than welcome wastes other people's time and damages relationships. Read the room, set clear end times, and leave before your presence becomes a burden—respect for others earns trust and spares awkwardness.

When to use it

  • At a friend's dinner, notice the host growing tired and leave at a clear, polite moment instead of lingering.
  • When a meeting runs out of value, wrap up quickly and schedule a follow-up rather than dragging it on for politeness.
  • If you're dominating a conversation, step back and end with a sincere thank-you so others can breathe.
  • Set start and end times before social gatherings so you don't overstay and erode goodwill.