“हथियार–बल से दया–बल ज्यादा ताकतवर साबित होता है। हथियार में हानि है, दया में कभी नहीं।”
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Probable attribution
This saying is widely associated with Mahatma Gandhi, but the attribution is not supported by a reliable primary source.
Likely origin: Hindi-edition text of a Gandhi work (labelled Hind Swaraj); genuine translated content carrying OCR footnote markers ('हानि12', 'कर्तव्य12').
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Coercion buys compliance but breeds resentment that outlasts it; mercy changes what a person actually wants, not just what they do for now. That's why kindness tends to hold where force only pauses a conflict — one path leaves damage behind, the other rarely does.
When to use it
- A manager who coaches a struggling worker back to strength instead of firing them, earning years of loyalty.
- A parent meeting a child's lie with honest conversation rather than punishment, so the child stops hiding things.
- Two neighbors ending a long feud when one quietly brings the other soup during an illness.